Self-Love Spell
A self-love spell is a spell to increase the love you have for yourself. It boosts your confidence and helps you to accept yourself for who you are. Here's a detailed guide to help you perform a self-love spell that can boost your confidence, self-worth, and inner peace.
Preparation
1. Setting Intentions:
Clearly define what self-love means to you and what you hope to achieve through this spell.
Write down your affirmations 3 max. For example, “I have compassion for myself” or “I am confident and worthy.”
2. Gathering Materials:
Candles: Pink for self-love
Crystals: Rose quartz and clear quartz
Herbs: Jasmine, rose petals, rosemary
Essential Oils: Jasmine or lavender
Paper and Pen: For writing affirmations or intentions.
A Lighter
Steps:
1. Creating a Sacred Space:
Cleanse the area where you will perform the spell. You can do this by burning a rosemary bundle if you choose.
Arrange your materials in front of you. Place the candle in the center, with crystals, herbs, and oils around it.
2. Grounding Yourself:
Sit comfortably and take a few deep breaths.
Visualize roots growing from your body into the earth, grounding you and connecting you with the earth’s energy.
3. Anointing the Candle:
Anoint the candle with essential oil by rubbing a few drops (3-5 drops) from the base to the wick while focusing on your affirmations.
Then place the anointed candle on a fire-safe dish and pour the herbs over the top of the candle. (You do not need a lot of each herb a pinch of each will do!)
Place the crystal next to the candle with herbs
4. Setting Intentions:
Light the candle and focus on the flame.
Take your paper and pen, and write down positive affirmations or your intentions for self-love.
5. Meditative Focus:
Spend a few moments in meditation, focusing on the flame, the crystal, or simply your breath. Visualize yourself surrounded by a warm, loving light.
6. Let the candle burn all the way down and go out on it’s own. Pay attention to how it burns, it is very telling on what areas you may need to work on to clear blockages vs if it was a 100% success.
Performing a self-love spell is a beautiful act of self-care and empowerment. Remember, the magic lies within you, and the spell is a tool to help you unlock and nurture your inner love and strength.
